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The bitter truth about why we suck at moving on

We all talk a lot about moving on. About letting go. About healing and forgetting. About putting ourselves first. About saving ourselves. About putting the pieces back together after we’re broken. We talk about saying goodbye, coming clean, washing away the pain. We talk about moving on. We write and we cry and then we… Continue reading The bitter truth about why we suck at moving on

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I don’t need you to save me but I would love it if you bought me pizza

So many people (I’m going to say people and not just girls because let’s be honest most people probably feel this way) are waiting for someone to save them. For someone to sweep them off their feet. To make their hearts race. To make them trust again. To make them forget about their shitty past.… Continue reading I don’t need you to save me but I would love it if you bought me pizza

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The different ways you can miss someone

At first, your mind will work so so hard to forget that one person. Your mind will work overtime just to forget the mere existence of that person. This could be just because you want to forget about them completely. Or it could be because you want to mask the feelings of sadness or the… Continue reading The different ways you can miss someone

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What to do when you can’t move on

Run yourself a bath at 6pm and accept the fact that you aren’t getting anything done tonight except feeling sorry for yourself. Forget to pay attention to the amount of hot water you’re putting in and end up stepping in to what feels like lava. Ignore the fact that your skin is screaming at you… Continue reading What to do when you can’t move on

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That little bit of sadness that never quite disappears

I’m not sure when I realised when I had depression. Maybe it was in the past couple of months or maybe I’ve been depressed my entire life. I have no idea anymore. All I know is that when I look back on my life, I have just always felt it. For so long I kept… Continue reading That little bit of sadness that never quite disappears

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5 small ways to make big changes

I swung my wardrobe door open to see nothing except a HUGE pile of clothes. I placed my hands on my hips and titled my head to the side wondering if it would look tidier at a different angle. It didn’t. Oh! Did I need to add that opening the door caused clothes to spew… Continue reading 5 small ways to make big changes

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How to succeed at failure

My therapist asked me a question tonight that really got me thinking. I had a bad day today so my usual meltdown mode had set in when I blurted out at 60 miles an hour the story of my day before I had even sat down. She looked at me with wide eyes, waiting for… Continue reading How to succeed at failure