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The bitter truth about why we suck at moving on

We all talk a lot about moving on. About letting go. About healing and forgetting. About putting ourselves first. About saving ourselves. About putting the pieces back together after we’re broken. We talk about saying goodbye, coming clean, washing away the pain. We talk about moving on. We write and we cry and then we… Continue reading The bitter truth about why we suck at moving on

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The amount of time it takes to get over someone. Or maybe not.

They say that when you’re trying to get over someone it takes half of the time that you were together to fully move on. So if you were together for a year, you have six months of living hell ahead of you. Four years, two years ahead of you. A month, two weeks. And so… Continue reading The amount of time it takes to get over someone. Or maybe not.

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Excuse me whilst I delete you from my life

Will you just excuse me whilst I delete you from my life? Just watch me whilst I resist the urge to double tap on your picture of you smiling that smile that made me slightly weak the knees just looking at it. Whilst I hit you with a read receipt but with no reply. Whilst… Continue reading Excuse me whilst I delete you from my life

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The different ways you can miss someone

At first, your mind will work so so hard to forget that one person. Your mind will work overtime just to forget the mere existence of that person. This could be just because you want to forget about them completely. Or it could be because you want to mask the feelings of sadness or the… Continue reading The different ways you can miss someone

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That little bit of sadness that never quite disappears

I’m not sure when I realised when I had depression. Maybe it was in the past couple of months or maybe I’ve been depressed my entire life. I have no idea anymore. All I know is that when I look back on my life, I have just always felt it. For so long I kept… Continue reading That little bit of sadness that never quite disappears

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5 small ways to make big changes

I swung my wardrobe door open to see nothing except a HUGE pile of clothes. I placed my hands on my hips and titled my head to the side wondering if it would look tidier at a different angle. It didn’t. Oh! Did I need to add that opening the door caused clothes to spew… Continue reading 5 small ways to make big changes

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Today I’m finally letting you go

I said that I was moving on and letting you go on Saturday night (or months ago when I said I needed to get over you). This was after (I won’t lie) 3 glasses of wine and 3 emotional chats with friends later. But I was waiting for today to make it official. One because… Continue reading Today I’m finally letting you go